Married to a Writer? 3 Things You Should Know

My husband and I recently celebrated our first anniversary. It’s been a wonderful year full of change, growth, and learning. Being married has changed my world—and as a result, the ebb and flow of my creativity is not quite the same as it used to be.

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At first, I found it difficult to communicate to my husband, a programmer, how difficult it had become to return to the comfort and solace of creativity—and how he could help me. Life became a whirlwind. While everything was great and we were happy, I felt lost as a writer, trying to juggle the fifty-thousand new things that came with marriage.

3 Things Minimalism is Not

I’ve talked before about how incorporating minimalism into your lifestyle can help enhance your creativity. Plus, it can have a positive effect on your overall mental well-being. And who wouldn’t want that?

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However, the concept of “minimalism”, as pertaining to lifestyle, is widely interpreted to be merely stylistic, and even frivolous. Quite the opposite of what true minimalists aim to achieve: freedom and mental clarity. So today, I want to dig a little deeper into what minimalism is—and more specifically—what it is not.

Are You a Consumer or a Creator?

In our fast-paced, high-tech world, becoming a Consumer is easier than ever before. Being a Creator? That’s a little more complicated.

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On one hand, modern technology enables creativity like never before; on the other hand, it can become a massive roadblock. The struggle to live a vibrantly creative life against a noise-filled backdrop of distractions is constant, and often frustrating. Despite all the modern convinces, creating sometimes feels like an up-hill battle—and we find ourselves trapped in the mindset of consumerism.

5 Everyday Habits to Fight Internet Addiction

Recently, I talked about the prevalence—and damage—of internet addiction in our society. Over-stimulation of our minds on a daily, even hourly basis can act as a major handicap to our creativity and mental focus. If we want to make an impact with our art, it’s important that we address this problem.

Everyday Habits

Lately, my husband and I have been taking steps to fight our own social media addictions. It’s just so easy to click over to Facebook—or worse, leave the tab open while attempting to work on other things. It’s frustrating and depressing to reach the end of the day, only to look back and realize that you did nothing but waste time, so today I want to talk about five simple, everyday habits you can employ to help fight internet addiction in your own life.

How Embracing Minimalism Can Enhance Your Creativity

Did you know?—clutter is killing your creativity. Little by little, it accumulates in corners, files, and even in the recesses of your own mind, draining away your creative well with distractions until you’re left feeling helpless, frustrated, and completely burned out.

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I’ve talked before about simplicity, and how it is not the same thing as minimalism. However, it is not uncommon for minimalism to become part of living a simplistic lifestyle. The truth is, these two often walk hand in hand, and today I want to talk about a few ways that minimalism, specifically, can help to rejuvenate and enhance your creativity.

The Internet and Addiction

The internet is an integral part of our world today. It enables us to obtain knowledge, maintain connection with friends and family, and, for many of us, it plays a huge role in our daily work routine. However, for all its incredible benefits, the internet can be a slippery slope to navigate.

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In a society constantly buzzing with motion and information, we’ve become dependent—sometimes to an unhealthy extent—on technology. We have smart phones, laptops, iPads, and more, all within arm’s reach at all times, and this level of dependency often turns out to be more of a hindrance than a help—especially when it comes to functional creativity.

Dear Writer: Why You Need to Get Out into the World

Over the last few weeks, I’ve finally started dipping my toes back into the pool of writing fiction. I’m finally developing a story idea into a real book after more than a year of “absent creativity”—and at last, I had a revelation: my creativity hadn’t really been gone; it had merely been asleep, recharging.

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When I was a teenager, my dream was to be a novelist. I would sit in my room at my desk for hours, plotting, writing, editing. The “life of a writer” consumed me. This was all I ever wanted: for it to be me, my characters, and my world. And of course, one day, a best-selling novel. But things didn’t quite work out that way.