I don’t know about you, but I’m a perfectionist. I’ll often spend more time analyzing my work than I do actually working. (Oh hey, I’m doing it right now with these opening sentences. What a great start.)
If you’re a perfectionist, don’t feel bad. You have great qualities, such as diligence, loyalty, and a desire for excellence. We need people like you and I in this world, but as perfectionists, we’ve got to learn how to manage our gifts, lest they become a hindrance.
My husband and I recently celebrated our first anniversary. It’s been a wonderful year full of change, growth, and learning. Being married has changed my world—and as a result, the ebb and flow of my creativity is not quite the same as it used to be.
At first, I found it difficult to communicate to my husband, a programmer, how difficult it had become to return to the comfort and solace of creativity—and how he could help me. Life became a whirlwind. While everything was great and we were happy, I felt lost as a writer, trying to juggle the fifty-thousand new things that came with marriage.